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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Op here. Well, I semi took the advice on this and texted him a friendly text - didn't ask him out though. He wound up asking me out. We went out a few more times. I thought he was into me. He now appears to have ghosted me....after I did more than I wanted to physically if he was just going to dump me.

I am going back to the "he's just not that into you" theory of dating. If the guys is into you, he will do the work and ask you out, contact you, etc. if he won't, he's not that into you.

I am so tired of this.[/quote]

My goodness, OP.  Haven't they already written a book on this... To paraphrase, if he doesn't seem into you, he's just not into you!  You are going about this backwards with your counting dates, timing sex etc.  A guy who likes you will make that clear: he'll call, he'll express interest, he'll want to ask you questions and figure out what you're into, AND he's not going to care about whether sex is on the second date or the seventh. (Within reason.  I doubt too many guys are waiting months and months...)  If you are insecure about whether a guy will stick around, 99% of the time its because he's [i]just not that into you[/i].  Stop torturing yourself.  Stop worrying about sex, and start paying attention to whether *you* really like the guy and whether he likes you.[/quote]

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