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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would love to tell DH that I lost respect for him.   He makes excuses for everything he never gets done when the truth is he is just lazy.   That I don't even want to have sex with him anymore because even that seems like it's too much of an effort for him.  He's out of shape and huffs and puffs about anything even remotely physical and I can't count on him to take care of even one administrative thing for the kids (for example, calling the school to confirm X, making a Dr.s appointment for Y, signing kids up for various activities)  it's always "I didn't get around to it" yet he doesn't do anything else.

That I am only staying with him because of the kids and he's a generally nice guy and we get along - it's just I have to do everything.  [/quote]

+100

:cry: [/quote]

DO you think he could be depressed?[/quote]

In my H's case, nope. Just plain lazy.[/quote]

I'M the original pp and he's already on a/d mds.  in fact, he's on a bunch of meds and always blames those when I attempt to bring up the issue of not doing anything.  For me, a big par of it is that he relies on me to manage everything, then resents me for managing everything.  He "forgets" to do the admin stuff. when I remind him, he says he didn't get around to it, or I left a message (thn I hear him calling and leaving the message) and then gets frustrated that I'm micro-managing.  (sigh)  I just lost so much respect for him.  That's the sad part.  He lies around all day, comes up with excuses for why stuff didn't get done, then lashes back when I "micro-manage"

It's just become easier to not even bother telling him all this because it wouldn't change anything and just lead to resentment.  [/quote]

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