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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op - don't get married again. Go to a therapist. Live alone so you can sort yourself out and hopefully not destroy more lives.  Maybe monogamy isn't right for you. You need to do some serious self reflection otherwise your claims of regret are just bullshit.  Plus you must know you really can't trust OW enough to marry her if she trapped you with pregnancy (the pill does not have mistakes.)  this 2nd marriage will just end in another messy divorce and ruined woman you'll feel bad about.  Focus on your kid(s)-try to be the best possible dad-ask your therapist how to help them cope.  they really do need you and they are the only ones that you can help at this point. [/quote]

I cheated on my wife.  OW got pregnant.  I got divorced and married AP.
1.   I was wrong and eventually made amends with ex-wife
2.   Have been married for over 20 years with current wife and no further cheating by either of us
3.   I have a great relationship with my kids from my first marriage.  They were and probably are still affected by the divorce, and I take responsibility and deeply regret this.
4.  My kids from my first marriage are very close from my kids from my second marriage.  I am very grateful and proud of them for this.
5.  My ex-wife has not re-married and even has been seriously involved with someone else.  I think she is the one who has chosen to not be involved with another man.  We were both unhappy with our marriage, although I freely admit I could have handled the dissolution of our marriage better.[/quote]

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