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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Surprised at all these people bent out of shape about a parent cheating. One of my parents cheated on the other. They got found out and then they got divorced and that was that. I was 20 so maybe it would have been harder if I had been younger. It's their business and we moved on.[/quote] Were you an oblivious child? IME, it's the highly perceptive and sensitive children who refuse to compartmentalize who end up damaged by their parent's affair. Your ability to compartmentalize your feelings is a direct result of your parent's affair. It is a protective mechanism that enabled you to cope. But it is a big deal to many children who cannot or simply refuse to set up these artificial boundaries. The fact of the matter is that one of your parents used the time, energy, and money on an affair partner and on deceiving his/her own family, that should have been spent on your other parent or on the children.[/quote]
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