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[quote=Anonymous]Totally selfish..... YOU want a kid.... you are not building a family.... you are not doing this out of love.... you are not even starting with a stable committed relationship because he will have his boy friends and you will have your boy friends popping in and out of the kids life.

Women get baby "hungry" some of it is biological.... by your age, while you are still able to have children, my guess is that the height of the biological imperative has significantly diminished. That means that most likely you are wanting a baby for another reason.... some of the reasons I've heard women give are "I want someone to love me," "I want something of myself," "I want someone there for me when I'm old." NONE of these reasons are selfless... they are 100% SELF focused. Kids TAKE they do not GIVE. If the expectation is that the child is going to "complete" you in come way that is delusional. Children are necessarily selfish creatures and only once they are grown doe they (if they are well adjusted) recognize their parents sacrifices and then they MIGHT be some sort of help/support for their aging parents.

You should just get a pet. [/quote]

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