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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The double standards are out in force in this thread. If the husband initiates while she is sleeping and she doesn't give consent after she wakes up is is rape?  But when a woman gives her husband a blowjob while his is sleeping and he "enjoys" it,  it's not rape?  Please, they are the same thing.  Enjoying something is not "consent", we've seen enough rape trials to know that how the victim responds does not mean they consented. For all he knew she WAS enjoying it, because she gave zero inclination otherwise even though she was clearly awake.[/quote]

Enjoy was a poor choice of words. If the partner in question male or female is fine with their partner initiating sex while they are sleeping or even completing sex before waking up then it's not rape.
This is something that should be  given the all clear beforehand.
Personally, even with consent that's not appealing to me.

It's clear in the scenario in the OP  the wife was not okay with what happened. The biggest red flag in the OP is that the husband brushed off the wife's complaints when she confronted him.
As this thread shows I can see how some people still (wrongly imo) believe they are free to do as they please with their spouse, but if your spouse tells you they aren't cool with it your response shouldn't be get over it.
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It may be clear to us because she complained about it after the fact.  I don't think it was very clear to her husband since she made no effort to convey her feelings. As unhappy as her husband may be about it, it sounds like if she had made her feelings clear while it was actually happening, he would have stopped.  It doesn't sound like he kept doing it after that revelation.[/quote]

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