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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Perhaps she didn't appreciate the way that you dealt w/the bad news. Instead of talking things out w/her & being there for her, you chose to go out on your own + get drunk.

I totally get that each and every person deals w/stress in totally different ways. We all are unique in that way.

She may be thinking that this is how you will behave in any future catastrophes and it may be an eye-opener for her. Kind of like a test of how you deal w/issues in life.

So she may need some time on her own to think things over.

I would let her have her time. I am sure you have apologized to her over & over, but she needs to do what she feels is right in her heart.

You may lose her. Or maybe not.

But you do owe her this time to figure everything out.

Good luck OP. I sincerely hope things eventually work out in your favor.

To err...is completely human. [/quote]

It's not that I got drunk. Apparently she did too. I don't honestly know completely why. I know she is upset about telling my sister, but I think her needing space if for herself. [b]She said she is afraid I will resent her down the road[/b].

Like I said, I was with her. I got drunk the next day at a good friends party. It was a pre-planned event and she had plans, too. [/quote]

I'm lost. Then why is she upset?  That you got drunk at all?  Or that you talked about the issue with your sister?[/quote][/quote]

I stated this earlier, and this would be the reason why I would not stay.  It will always be in the back of her mind.  I don't know know if you can convince her that this wouldn't be the case.  However, earlier in the thread you stated that she said something to the effect of how she thought your behavior was immature or something.   What behavior is she referencing that was immature, if not getting drunk in response to this issue?  I'm still a bit lost.[/quote]

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