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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. I don't know why I'm getting attacked. I've heard the old adage "men marry women hoping they won't ever change, women marry men hoping they will change. neither are happy." I buy into that somewhat, but I don't get why I'm getting told that I have a "my way or the highway attitude."

I haven't changed very much at all (except in better shape) during our relationship. If anything I'm more helpful and mature around the house. In contrast, she basically took sex off the table after a year and a half. Yet, some PPs are saying I have a "my way or the highway personality." Sorry just don't get that. [b]All I want is the girl I fell in love with back. [/b]I'm willing to (and have) asked her if there are things I've changed in and I'm willing to fix them. So far she doesn't tell me what I did differently in the beginning. Agrees I haven't changed.[/quote]

That girl is gone. Love don't live here no more. Move on.[/quote]

You know when you are first getter nag to know one another, you have an imperfect understanding of who the other person is?  There are gaps in your understanding of them, and you project your own idea of what goes into those gaps to "see" the other person?

Maybe you haven't really changed, but she had the hots for the man she thought you were but you aren't really.

Maybe she stays because she still thinks you love each other and that should make it work out somehow. Isn't that why you have stayed til now?[/quote]

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