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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you told your DH you were off the pill then it was on him and you to use alternate BC. He could have used condoms. So how is this your fault?

Now, if you didn't tell him that's another story. [/quote]

[b]Nope- I did not tell him[/b].  Honestly- I have a lot of friends who had been trying to have children.  I just thought there is a very slim chance of me getting pregnant at the first try after being on BC for the last 15 years of my life.  Stupid- but true. [/quote]

You are not being honest about what you were doing... too busy to get a refill... and didn't tell him.... you didn't tell him because you knew he would have been upset and would have pushed the issue so that you would have gone and gotten your pills. You knew he didn't want kids and you did this to him. It to very unfair to ask his opinion about abortion after the fact because you and everyone knows that in todays climate the choice is ALWAYS the woman's... "my body my choice" You put your husband in a no-win situation.... if he says get an abortion then you could turn it around on him... if you get the abortion then its his fault and you can feel resentful to him your whole life.... if you don't get the abortion then you can always remind him that he "didn't support you" and that he "never wanted the child..." I can image those little reminders you would drop over and over for his while life. This sort of bad behavior on your part is not forgivable.[/quote]

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