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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I have a friend who religiously took bc for years without incident.at 35, with her recently separated bf who already had kids and didn't want more, she started forgetting here and there. she did not consciously set out to get pg (and her version of skipping was a day or two here and there) but she has come to realize a few years later that at some level she wanted a kid, or at least wanted to explore it but being non confrontational this was the way she handled it (very badly I might add). The first thing you need to understand is why you did this and in this manner, why the self deception, even now. Because without accepting full responsibility not just for your actions but for what lay underneath them you can't really begin to work on the marriage, or yourself. Self honesty is the first step to bring fully honest with your husband. Perhaps after that healing can begin.

And my friend is still the the bf and their child is passionately loved. But her bf does not pull his weight in a lot of ways and she feels like she can't ask for that, but it causes problems anyway that manifest in other arenas.[/quote]

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