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The point I was trying to get across is that you can get STDs even when you are in a committed relationship.  And yes, my uncle was in a committed relationship as well; he is utterly devoted to my aunt. He just happens to be a sex addict.  And I suppose he probably has a virgin/whore complex. And yes, my aunt is not a virgin, but he definitely held her up on a pedestal and cheated on her with a lot of prostitutes and strippers.

The really tragic part is that he also squandered their money, and my aunt - who became a SAHM soon after the birth of her first child - had no clue until it was all gone.  She has a husband still and beautiful children, but her newfound 'chastity' got her nothing else.

Meanwhile, while she was 'whoring' in her 20s,  she was amazing, had a career, had traveled extensively, had crazy adventures, and was a very wealthy single woman.

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My takeaway from your story, pp, is that it is not very encouraging that an "experienced" woman could not detect that her DH was a sex addict.  What was the point of having all these experiences if none of them gave her the insight to stay away from a crappy potential spouse, arguably the most important decision of your life?  And no, I don't believe that he "hid" this behavior completely, without red flags.[/quote]

More interesting is why this story is of such fascination to PP, the niece. I'm scared to think what "lesson" you think you are learning from this.[/quote]

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