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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, how do you suggest women break out of that circle?

I guess I'm kinda like your friend, minus living with guys and the STD's, outside of two short relationships, I've been single my whole adult life (I'm 31). 
I don't think I know how to have a normal healthy relationship because I was never in one (broke up with my last bf after 4 months because he didn't treat me very nice) and my parents had a terrible relationship.

I tried therapy but that did nothing to help matters.

I think people are quick to judge but not everyone is as lucky to be taught what a real healthy relationship should be like and how to find one and be in one. [/quote]

PP it is trial and error for everyone, even people who came from stable families that modeled a good relationship  I did not have a good model for relationships either, and I got married very early partly as a result, and DH and I are still working on it.  I think EVERYONE is struggling, at least sometimes.

Usually it is as basic as treat others as you want to be treated, and if someone is not treating you right, consider why, and consider why you are putting up with it.  And take it slow!  The right guy won't mind if he is serious too.[/quote]

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