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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am seriously wondering what people would say if this was about a man having assaulted a woman and now getting married to another woman. Would you tell that woman about the mans violent past?[/quote]

If it were 10 years earlier and there had been nothing since, no, I wouldn't think there was anything to tell. [/quote]

I'm app 11:45. I WAS assaulted by a man 10 years ago. And you know what? As I said - he is NOT the same man he was then. I would never tell his wife, because I really believe his behavior was a snapshot in time.

Is that weird to say, considering it was directed at me? Sure. But at the same point- I don't harbor bitterness for the sake of it. It was truly a one time deal. He lost control, but he also paid his dues. And that is all I can ask.

You can define a person by their mistakes, or define them by their successes. The fact that you define someone you consider a dear friend by the former says more about you, than it does about her.

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