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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All right, I'm the OP and I came back to address a few things:

Yes I agree I have no authority over who my son dates. But I do have more invested in his happiness, well-being and success in life than a girlfriend who might leave him at any time, or divorce him after she gets married.

The naivete about strippers in this thread is hysterical. The majority of them have histories of abuse, drug problems, and eventually they start escorting on the side to make more cash. It's well-documented. None of this is news. It's not a "female-empowering" profession, although yes as a feminist we should allow all women to make their own choices. DS's girlfriend is obviously free to make her own choices, I'm not going to police her. But I do have a say over who joins my family.

Every now and then one happy stripper will trot along and do a DCUM AMA or an interview onTV, just like you'll see the PR-friends happy porn star and happy hooker doing the same things. These women DO NOT accurately represent their industry and very often they aren't accurately. It's incredibly naive and delusional to think otherwise.

However, thanks again for your replies, and this thread can end now.[/quote]

You are insane.  And how are you such an expert on strippers????

"I do have a say over who joins my family"???  Um actually, no you don't.

Go ahead and be a hater.  You are the one who will lose.  Your future DIL will be lucky if you ostracize her and she doesn't have to put up with your crap.[/quote]

I guess she does have a say over who joins her family.  But if she excludes her DS's partner for whatever reason, her DS will leave, too.  SHe can control who she lets in but she can't control who leaves.  Plenty of people feel the same way OP do about interracial/interreligious/same sex relationships, and they end up losing their own children. [/quote]

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