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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No o lady here... I've shared he's stayed doing the same or something completely different that's not working.

I don't think he's fully to blame. I don't speak up enough and faking has become routine.

[b]Showing him is not an option. he'd never go for that. Then I'd feel rejected for asking.[/b]

Starting to understand y people cheat. [/quote]

I like to try to see things from other peoples' point of view, but I can't even begin to climb inside the head of a guy who would object to his wife showing him what makes her feel good. Sexy as hell to watch and makes things easier and better going forward. [/quote]

My husband wouldn't like me to show him.  It would make him feel inept.[/quote]

Guy again- Has he explicitly said this?  If so, he has some serious confidence issues.

Since this is the non-explicit, I'll try my best to keep it that way but-

Have the two of you just masturbated next to each other?  Ask him to give oral and then do what you need to do to get the O.  If he wants to stop and have intercourse, just be assertive and say you [b][i]really[/i][/b] just want to cum all over his face this time and you'll take care of him after.

It sounds like the two of you aren't communicating well.  You shouldn't say "here are the steps you need to do to make me cum" but rather incorporate what you need to do to get off with him.  For example, my wife almost always rubs her clit to cum during sex.  Its what she needs to do and I have no problems knowing she needs more than penetration to be satisfied. [/quote]

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