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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not her fault your man cheated on you. In fact she's just a physical being that could be anyone. He cheated because he's a selfish ass or because you pushed him away. Most times the ow is just as hurt when the relationship ends. Fix yourself and your relationship. [/quote]

Because it's easier to hate the OW/OM rather than recognizing that the person who was supposed to love you, cherish you, see you through hard times is a POS who can't keep it in his pants or keep her legs closed.

That said, I don't give affair partners a free pass, yet to me the biggest responsibility is always on the married person.[/quote]

Make no mistake - it's also easier for the "other woman" to justify her unconscionable behavior by demonizing the wife - a woman who, in most cases she doesn't even know - as if she "deserves" it.  (Witness this masterful piece of nonsense to which you responded, PP.)  It's just easier to believe the sob story of the married man she is screwing than to use critical thinking skills or admit that she doesn't have the integrity to send him packing.  Both parties in these scenarios are total losers, IMO.[/quote]

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