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As a wife, I would be fine with my husband donating sperm to a lesbian friend in general. In this situation, absolutely. However, if my husband did it behind my back, I would not be fine with it. If my husband discussed it with me and for whatever reason I was not comfortable with it and told him that I couldn't agree to it, and he did it anyway, it would not be fine.

It sounds like there are larger issues, like the OP's wife being homophobic and [b]the strange gratitude that the OP feels[/b]. If I was the organ donating friend, "I'm really sorry, I know that we had a deal, but my wife is really not okay with my donating sperm to anyone" would be a completely acceptable explanation to me. I would not want to be complicit in destroying the marriage of someone I cared enough about to give a kidney (or bit of liver, or whatever) to.

OP, does your friend know that you are now in a situation where it would be a problem to follow through on the agreement? [/quote]

Strange gratitude? She saved his life quite apart from putting herself at risk.

I can totally understand the gratitude and if someone saved my life through an organ donation, I'd kiss the ground she walked on![/quote]

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