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[quote=Anonymous]To those who keep asking why it has to be OP's sperm, it could be that the woman doesn't know anyone else in her circle who could be a donor. I am the wife of the woman who posted earlier about having used a known donor. Honestly, we had no idea what Plan B would be if our donor had declined to assist. We wanted someone who was in a committed relationship because we wanted to be sure there would be no (or little) chance of our donor contracting an STD. Our uncoupled friends were all fairly promiscuous. We know another couple, but are best friends with them, and that would have been way too close for comfort, especially for my wife who did not carry our child. We wanted someone we knew and trusted and were relatively close with, but who wasn't constantly in the picture. As my wife mentioned, anonymous was not for us. In addition to everything she addressed, at the very least we knew we wanted our child to have the ability to someday know his donor, if he chose to. While many anon donors say they will allow for contact after 18 years, they are free to change their mind at any time, and many do once they've settled down, married, and had kids of their own.

Still, if I were this woman and knew that my asking this huge favor would potentially destroy my friend's marriage, it would absolutely be a no-go. And of course I agree with everyone else that you should under no circumstances do this without your wife's knowledge, and preferably with her consent, too.[/quote]

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