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[quote=Anonymous]OP again. FWIW, both perspectives make sense to me. We're down with emphatic (and hopefully have been emphatic enough in addressing this, but will ratchet it up a notch if it happens again) but not with shaming, just because that's not part of how our family approaches discipline. But I'm not super convinced that either of those responses does much to address the underlying thoughts--words and actions, yes, and those do matter to me too. But it's the thoughts I'm worried most about, because if we can address those I like to think that appropriate words and actions will [eventually] follow. And if we can't, I worry that even if the words and actions stop because of whatever stick or carrot we use now, they'll just resurface later in some other form. :/[/quote]
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