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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]So hubby needs to get better in bed but he doesn't get any sex until then? How is he supposed to practice and improve his technique If he has no willing partner to do it with? [/quote]

Stop thinking about it in terms of YOU getting off.  Start thinking about touch that's not always going to lead to intercourse and YOUR orgasm.  Affection, touching, cuddling, etc.  The only time my spouse touches me is when he's getting ready to serve himself some of me.  It doesn't have anything to do with me.  I'm just the means to his pleasure.  That's the problem, pure and simple.  [/quote]

If you can share the instruction manual to what gets every woman off, please do so.  It'd be a best seller.  Unfortunately, people are unique and what turns on one person may not work for another.  What your suggesting is essentially infrequent trial-and-error by one partner without guidance from the other.  You gave us "affection, touching, cuddling, etc" as the keys to your vagina- you should share these with greater detail to your partner and he should be willing to do them for you.  "I like when you do this, please do more..." is a good way to phrase it.

Reading a book and trying to read your mind isn't a great plan, IMO.

Both partners should be invested in improving their sexual relationship for best results.  
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