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Reply to "He says he's old-fashioned, but keeps letting me set up dates, and pay"
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[quote=Anonymous]Op, I'm the poster you responded to at 22:06. You seem really nice, kind, polite even to Internet strangers that are not so nice...and does that extend to guys you date? Are you a people pleaser by any chance? Are you the friend who is always the giver, always the one keeping the friendship going? You seem to be letting this guy lead, not asserting yourself, almost afraid to rock the boat. You're not responsible for his feelings. He is, by all your accounts, not worth any more time or dates. This is not going to get better, he has shown you clearly who he is and it's not good. I don't necessarily think he's married but he is awkward socially and trying to label himself, relationships and you now with guides for restaurant choice, paying, planning sex. I bet he took some dating help class or read some ridiculous book and that is where these behaviors are coming from. Just some things to think about![/quote]
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