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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your posting made me so sad OP.

Especially the sentence where you stated that you felt like an "afterthought."

I can see why and how you must feel so overwhelmed and under-appreciated by your husband. It looks to me as if he is doing everything "half-assed" just to pacify you, such as simply putting the dishes in the dishwasher, but not wiping the table or cleaning the pans, etc. It's like in his mind, at least he did something so he gets his free pass out of jail.

You need to talk to him about this, but it needs to be at a time when you are not feeling resentful and bitter about the issue. And also, you have to keep your tone and the way that you choose your words in check because the last thing you want is for him to get defensive and for you both to get in a heated argument. If that occurs, nothing good will come out of it.

Just stress to him that you would appreciate a little more THOUGHT and EFFORT on his part every once in a while. That is all, not too much to ask from you.

Hopefully in the right mood, [b]he will see the error of his ways and make the necessary changes. [/b]

I wish you both the best of luck with this.[/quote]

OMG. OP is a nag and you want him to change HIS ways?[/quote]

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