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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DO NOT TELL.  If you are committed to never doing it again, and if there is no possibility your husband will find out some other sources, DO NOT TELL.

Yes, you feel disgusting right now, but no feelings last.  In a few weeks, you'll forget all about it and live happily ever after.  Telling accomplishes nothing, absolutely nothing. It will probably blow up your life as you know it forever.  DO NOT TELL.

Also,

Do not act any differently.  And

DO NOT, for chrissakes, DO NOT create any track of evidence of this. No texts, no emails, no voicemails, nothing from your hookup guy.  If he communicates with you, do not pick up, delete all emails and texts, LEAVE NO TRACE. [/quote]

Except the guilt will make OP act differently.  AP is a legitimate work contact, not a perfect stranger. He doesn't just disappear and lots of opportunities for innocent coincidences.

Then there is the possibility that AP sends her something not so innocent - whether or not he does, OP wondering about it will prevent things from ever being normal.

Like a PP said, if her marriage is really sound, the only way to get back on solid footing is to tell.  If marriage is not that sound, then not telling is fine.[/quote]

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