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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a 37 year old never married guy.  A kid isn't necessarily a deal breaker in a woman, but she'd have to be really special.  Even if the kid is great, it's a huge complication and we all already lead complicated lives.

That's not to say there aren't single men who date/marry single moms.  But there are many, many single women without kids in DC and other big cities.  All else being equal, the guys with options (and no kids themselves) will choose the childless woman.

Dating her age or even a couple years younger won't help.  In fact, it will increase the likelihood the guys will just be into something casual.  Many childless guys in their late 20's are looking for relationships, but with childless women in their mid to late 20's.  They'd date/have sex with OP but that's it.  She is smart to look older, that's where she'll have the most luck. [/quote]

i'm a PP guy in the first page. The kid isn't the issue (i've dated single mom's in the past with youngish kids) but perhaps its just my luck but the drama that a baby daddy brings is a huge issue. even if it is relatively 'smooth'.

If I date a single mom again, it'll only be a situation where the Baby Daddy is dead.[/quote]

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