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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]omg. a hellish and devilish world. whoever would judge the adoptees here for daring to feel "slights" clearly has reading comprehension issues. countless examples of inhumane behaviour, telling children they're shit and will only ever be shit and that they were a mistake and a waste of money is a "slight"? you seriously need to be tested for psychosis and get meds quick. how is it that some reactions to these horrific stories are an appropriate horrified response, while others are more victimizing of the victim. those verbally victimizing the adoptees here are doing it due to some emotional investment in the adoptee being the one at fault vs the adopter. I volunteered one day at an orphanage with school aged children. it was abroad. the policy there was that children of a certain age had to give their consent before they would be made eligible for adoption. I thought it was the most humane thing I've heard in a long time regarding children. and here's what I want to say to everyone. not one of those children wanted to be adopted. they instinctively sense the danger in being under the absolute control of adults who didn't birth them.[/quote]

Huh.  Well, I'm friends with an adoptee from abroad who was adopted from an orphanage when she was 10.  She said every day she saw kids being adopted and she always prayed and wondered why she wasn't being adopted.  [/quote]

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