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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  DD has a small "study" attached to her bedroom and she and her boyfriend study up there (or at least part of the time now).  We never disturb her.  Her room also has an door to the outside so we don't even know went he comes and goes (Christ, the puns are inevitable!)

DD told me that her doctor tested them both for STDs, even though she was a virgin, and they came back clean.

I know his parents but don't feel comfortable bring up this issue with them - should I?  I don't know if they know...

On one hand, I am very proud of the way DD handled this - she told her boyfriend that there would be no fooling around at all before they made the decision to get into a sexual relationship and to go to the doctor.  She felt very strongly that, as the female, she didn't want to play the game of the girl being the "goal keeper" and the one responsible for saying no.  Apparently he respected this so there was nothing beyond kissing until she had a month on the pill.

On the other hand, my daughter is having sex in her bedroom with her boyfriend!!!!  I just cannot get past this and honestly don't know if there is anything I could or should do!!!  I wasn't prepared for this and I don't know why I wasn't - denial, I guess.

DD's father passed away when she was seven and I have not told her step-father.  She very close to him and he adores her - I don't know how he would take it.

[b]The readers of this thread are the only people who know my daughter is having sex.  Regularly.  Upstairs. [/b]  [/quote]
The readers of this thread and ALL of the boy's friends.[/quote]

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