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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he insists on these visits HE can do the extra work. Meals, cleaning, chauffer, etc. [b] Do not compromise[/b].[/quote] I agree with OP's angst for the most part, but if my spouse refused to be gracious to my parents (no matter how he felt about them visiting), we would be done as a couple. [/quote] Getting DH to take on extra burden of work connected to parent visits and being ungracious to ILs are not the same. You can get the DH to help and still be cordial to ILs when they show up. The problem is that everything gets dumped on OP, hence the resentment. Being a gracious work horse with an infant is taking a toll on her. Which is neither fair nor reasonable.[/quote]
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