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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, it's not even really about the bride. Don't you guys feel it's important to make an effort for your children to be part of family events? [/quote] It's important for children to be a part when the fact that there are children they would like to attend, and when the "host" understands, and is possibly willing to incur some of the cost, time, and emotional expense of having them there. A destination wedding is about the venue, not about family. The bride chose that route when she chose to have a destination wedding. The very nature of them makes them at minimum a bone of contention, at worst prohibitive, for "guests". So, in the words of the Rolling Stones " you can't always get what you want". The bride is getting her destination wedding. She should not expect everyone else to take extreme burden to accommodate and fulfill the rest of her very lofty wish list. [/quote]
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