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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As an atheist who celebrates in December with a tree and gifts, traditional family foods, etc., I understand why Christians might prefer the rest of us celebrate these traditions with some name other than Christmas but you can't deny there is a cultural holiday in the U.S. that gets called Christmas and that even many jewish people celebrate as a holiday for children. I don't think it's correct to call those people inconsistent. [/quote] Or just accept that in the face of the complexities of life we are all inconsistent about some things.[/quote] It's not a religious holiday to me. Thus, no inconsistency. [/quote] I think it is similar to showing up at a gay wedding reception and just dancing and drinking the night away while denying that they are legally married and talking the other 364 days/ Year about how much homosexuality is wrong Perfect analogy? No. But that is similar to why it feels wrong to those of us who have faith in a way[/quote] I've celebrated Christmas as a believer and a non-believer and it feels the same to me -- lots of colored lights and decorations, seasonal music and special foods, time set aside for family. I even go to midnight mass - there's something so special about going out so late at night for a once-a-year event. It didn't occur to me that people who believe that Christ was born then would resent others participating in the season, so much of which is not belief-based.[/quote] I don't know if resentment would be the right word, but per the example above of a gay wedding, you would be a good example of someone eating, drinking and enjoying the wedding cake, claiming "it's just dinner and a party," which would understandably not be in the spirit of the couple who were celebrating their marriage. Seems weird when you think of that way. Just something to think about [/quote] I don't know if that's the best analogy. People see Christmas in different ways -- some see it as completely secular, and some see it as a religious holiday (I'm not arguing that either side is "right," just that that's how they see it). A wedding is a wedding -- I don't think anyone would say that a wedding [i]isn't[/i] about the legal union of two people. [/quote]
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