Reply to Can someone please tell me what to do

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Can someone please tell me what to do"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote]Best advice so far on this thread.  Not trying to be insensitive, but your hormones probably got the best of you and the women on this board are completely overreacting without all the facts.  I don't know if your DH is verbally abusive and whether you should stay or go.  Certainly a stressed out "f u" does not constitute verbal abuse without a pattern,  it's called being human. And yes, you created much more drama than the situation appears to have called for,  your bf is probably freaking out wondering if he can live with such a drama queen.  Again, not trying to be rude but feel compelled to add some perspective,  and FWIW- I'm female, happily married mom of 2 who remembers lots of drama in younger years of marriage and during my pregnancies.  [/quote]

I would have agreed with you had not OP posted the information below.  If her DH is already behaving as he did earlier in their relationship, it will only get worse with a newborn.  Better to nip this in the bud right now.

[quote]He's always been kind of a jerk. I had poor self esteem when I married him about five years ago and didn't understand this. His dad especially is an a-hole to his mom and he mimics that behavior. I went through individual therapy and learned to stick up for myself and we did couples counseling as well and it helped immensely. We were in a pretty good place before the pregnancy. The majority of the last few years and the start of the pregnancy were fine, really good in fact. Now this ugly behavior is back and I'm crushed. In our late 30s.[/quote][/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics