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[quote=Anonymous]I think what's important is how the cheater behaves after he/she ends the affair. Let's say he goes to therapy or talks to some other type of counselor and really figures out why he did what he did and commits to change and actually does change. Why is the relationship based on lies? He's not faking his commitment to his wife or his love or his devotion anymore. What good would it serve to tell? What if this person did this act as a result of some extreme stress he was under, stress he's not likely to live through again? He recommits to his relationship and doesn't mess up again. Why would he have to tell? [/quote]
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