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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, there's nothing that's not already here that I can't agree with.

I've been with whom I consider DH For 11 years. I'm now pushing 40. I've watched the best years of my life, fertility, and youth go by. And every month I see my period come, and it aches in my womb, and on my left ring finger., there's nothing I see that will change.

Do I love him? Yes, and I can't complain because it's what I chose consciously. And now, I wish I knew sooner thAt sooner or later, it's too late to fix.

Decide what you want. And go with it. There is still lots of time. Don't think he's the only one, ever. Because regardless, he's not asking. And if you go seek someone who might.. Well.. You' still may ahead of the game. I firmly believe now that a man who is head over heels will ask, and soon, or sooner. Women who wait are chumps. Even if I am one.

In my life, I feel like I settled. But I guess he did too. I'm not good enough to marry. He's not bad enough to leave. And so we settle. [/quote]

I'm the PP who married at 40 after wasting 8 years in failed relationships and even more years getting over a terrible one.  I have felt the heartbreak and ache you feel every month.  I gave up on the dream and thought it was over for me at 38.

But 4 hours ago my baby was in my arms.

Please don't give up on your life dreams. It's not too late.[/quote]

Congratulations!!!! And thank you for this. I'm PP that posted what you quoted. You just gave me an ear to ear smile. [/quote]

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