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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Bluffing? You shared vows with this person! Why would you devote time and energy to someone outside your marriage? Think back, did you ever think it would come to this?
It not fair to DW or OW to do this. The time and effort spent on someone else should be devoted to trying to solve this. 
What you describe is a threat. If you want to do it that way threaten divorce.
If DH came to me and said he wanted an open marriage, I would not want to be a part of it. I have the right to a healthy STD free life. [/quote]

His wife does have the right not to be part of it. Her choices are get off her laurels and foster this part of their relationship, or divorce. You can't force someone to live in celibacy. So you either live up to your end of things or let them find a partner who will give them what they need. But the kind thing to do is let her know this is the state of the marriage and give her the ability to choose how she proceeds.

We are saying the same thing[/quote]

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