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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She slept with them both. So what? I really don't understand why everyone is so bent out of shape. She's been on a few dates with a few different guys. It's called being single and dating.

Most of you sound bitter that you're not Guy 2 or Guy 3, getting laid easily. You're projecting your issues onto this woman.[/quote]

From OP: I got a text from Guy 1 Saturday morning that he had to cancel our date that night because he said (but I don’t believe him) he had to work. I said OK, how about Monday? He said OK and I’m going to see him in a bit so I’m wondering what he’s going to ask and how I should handle things delicately, assuming he brings up last Friday at all.

She basically wants to know 1)why guy 1 reacted how he did and 2) how to "handle things delicately"

The male posters here for the most part are trying to explain that to her, not projecting any issues.  Only in a woman's mind does it make sense to make a guy you really like wait for sex when you will put out willingly to guys you don't give a shit about.  Is it a woman's right to do so? of course.  Will it ever make any sense to a man? No, and if he finds out it has happened to him it is his right to move on down the road.

Assuming the OP is real, she is finding out what we are saying is accurate, as evidenced by his avoiding her.  No male on here gives a fuck she was nailing multiple guys.  She's not in a committed relationship.  What the guys have an issue with (and what Guy 1 would have an issue with if he knew the full story) is being the only no-pussy-getting MFer out of the three.  If you want to fuck, fuck.  But if you really like guy 1 why not go ahead and fuck him too?

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