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[b]I agree with you, that a man who has an long term affair is a shitty dad. [/b] Good fathers don't do things that break up the family and force their kids to live in 2 family homes.  It sucks that he is a selfish parent, but you don't have any control of that, and you will never change it.   The court doesn't care about who is a "good" parent.  They only care if a parent is an actively "bad" parent, i.e., that physical or sexual abuse or, perhaps, serious neglect (like leaving a kid alone) has happened.  Focus on getting as much time as you can with your child and being the best parent you can when you are with them.  Don't criticize the other parent.  Your child will see mother and father's actions growing up, and your child will clearly see what kind of parent each of you are.  If your ex is as selfish as you say he is, your kids will experience heartbreak with him and there is nothing you can do to protect them from it.  Think now how you are going to handle that in a healthy way -- you don't want to demonize him, but you also don't want to normalize crappy treatment because then your kids will accept it from other people.  [/quote]

A man who has an affair - whether long-term or not - is a shitty husband.

Shitty husbands sometimes are good dads. Great husband are sometimes not so great as fathers.[/quote]

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