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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Huh?  I'm 5'7", 165, and I wear a size 14...

Are you sure you wear a size 14??[/quote]

NP here, but I just want to correct all those folks comparing their weight with OPs and questioning her size.  People's weight can be vastly different while being the same size.  It's the density of your body that makes the difference.  For example, if you compare a couple of babies - some just feel much heavier than others but are relatively the same size.  Another example - I knew a friend who was anorexic - hospitalized anorexic, not just the DCUM "I'm skinny" anorexic.  But, at her lowest (when she had to be hospitalized) she weighed 120.  But she was emaciated.  She was very sick.  Her body couldn't sustain such a "low" weight.  While for someone like me who is lighter in weight but bigger in size, at 130 I'm a size 6 or 8.

Please don't use weight as the indicator.  I'm not saying OP isn't overweight or unhealthy or whatever else people are assuming - I'm not making any judgments about her - but I would use her size as the indicator rather than her weight.

Me, personally, don't think a size 14 is huge at all - yes, it's overweight, but it's not "fat" to me.  So, if I were a man, I'd probably date you :)  [/quote]

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