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[quote=Anonymous]OP, find a man who loves you for you, not who he thinks or wants you to be.  I would imagine it would be exhausting to pretend to be someone else 24/7 for years on end.  Likewise, find a man you can love for himself the way he his, not what you think you can make him become.  He is who he is, and if you try to change him, it will not work; you will be disappointed, and I see divorce in your future.   Find someone to love you for who you are and not your superficial you.  You will both age, and you especially will age faster after having kids.

Also, you may find that what you want in your 20's is not the same as what you want in your 30's.

Having stated that, I did not know how to cook nor was I maternal when my husband and I got together (I don't know that I am maternal now even with 2 kids).  He is a great life partner, and I feel very loved by him.  I am not tall with long blond hair; actually, I'm the opposite - short and dark hair.  From what he's told me, it was how easy he felt being with me that grabbed him, and that ease comes from compatibility.  Yes, looks does help, but it's not like I'm a supermodel. I'm average, well, he would say above average.

Just be yourself.  If you are maternal and a great cook, make 6 figures and have an advanced degree, great.  You will probably be compatible with someone like-minded.

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