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[quote=Anonymous]OP, walk away now.  I've been there, and it doesn't get better.  With my exH, I ignored several obvious signs of cheating because he always had an explanation and I wasn't ready to get divorced if there was a chance that I was wrong.  Time after time, I asked myself, is this enough to get divorced over?  Am I really going to get divorced over something as small as a phone number on a post it note/movie tickets/a hairband in his bedroom/etc.?  How can I be sure that I'm right?  It took a phone call from one of his girlfriends to give me the push I needed because there was no lie he could tell that would explain what she said.  Is that really what you're waiting for?  Don't move in with this guy and don't marry him -- the more serious you get, the harder it is to walk away.  If it seems hard to break up now, what if you were married and have kids?  You know in your heart that something isn't right, or else you wouldn't be posting here.  Listen to your intuition, it's there to protect you.  You care about him and want the future that he has described to you, and it is so hard to walk away from something that you want when you can't *prove* that he is cheating.  Don't wait until you have proof -- if you have kids with him and then find out he's cheating, you will have lost your chance for a happy, uncomplicated family with someone who really cares about you and treats you well.  Trust me that there are guys out there who don't give you that nervous feeling in the pit of your stomach that you try to ignore.  After my divorce, I met a wonderful man who always treats me well and we have a beautiful family.  Looking back, I am amazed that I ever settled for less.
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