Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Infants, Toddlers, & Preschoolers
Reply to "So angry at my mother I could just explode"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]Oh my goodness. OP, so sorry for your loss, the situation with your mom, and all of the bizarrely antagonistic and mean comments earlier in the thread. I think some people have an odd view of what baseline care should be if it's okay to leave such a young child unattended for hours. OP could have just left her child in the crib at home alone and left for her procedure and it would have been the same amount of care that her mom provided, and I assume nobody would think that was okay. I hope that OP and her mom can come to some sort of resolution in their personal relationship. I would not let my mom take care of the child again and would want to have a sit down talk about what is going on with mom to allow this to happen. Mom being under the influence of the drug (and possibly alcohol) probably made her reaction to OP's distress more out of whack than might be normal. So, if mom is sober, perhaps OP and mom can have a good conversation about what happened. Nevertheless, I would not allow mom to ever be a solo caregiver again.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics