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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'll tell you how, OP -- do what I did. Believe him when he tells you he is divorcing his wife and she is fine with it. Then believe his wife when she tells you they are just room mates and friends, not really man and wife. Believe him when he tells you that he hasn't had sex in ten years (and because the sex with him turns out to be so bad, this is the easiest part of all to believe....). Believe him when he says he has filed the divorce papers "online." Agree to move in with him. Believe him when he spends free time at "his wife's house." Kick him to the curb when you realize the truth, and watch him move his ten things out of your apartment back into "his wife's house."  Feel deep shame and regret when you and his "roommate and friend/STBX wife" have babies a few days apart. Kick yourself for being such an idiot. Kick yourself a few more times. Then do it for a few more years. Get sued for custody -- a few times. Ask yourself what lessons you have learned along the way. Scratch your head. Ask yourself again. Etc. Works like a charm.[/quote]

Yep, I was told the same line of crap, too.  Then his wife became pregnant.  Yeah, I doubt he was sleeping on the couch.  The worst part is that I stayed with him through the birth of that child, but I decided after that that I would never be able to believe him about anything.  About his feelings for me.  About his feelings for her.  And he has the nerve to be heartbroken that I left him.

I'm doing much better now, but I still cry.  I don't know when it will get better, but I just try to stay busy and to count my blessings.  Get away while you still can.  Before you allow yourself to be sucked in further.  He has nothing to lose, but you do.[/quote]

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