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[quote=Anonymous]I don't mean this in a snarky way but I think you would benefit from some education counseling to help you develop a more realistic understanding of life and not worry so much.  I understand your DD is treading a totally different path than what you're accustomed to - one that you have very little insight to and that worries you.  You need some help understanding it. $50K a year is absolutely enough to live on especially if it's only you you're supporting.  I gently suggest you re-think your ideas about the need for college in order to have a good life.  There's absolutely nothing wrong with blue collar or service jobs.  It's honest work and even in the worst economy, people need plumbers and hair stylists.

I think it's unrealistic for you to think that your DD will do well in college - not because she is of low average intelligence but because she hates school so much now and isn't interested in academics.  College is far harder than high school.  Even people of low average intelligence can do well in the subjects they're interested in.  It doesn't seem as if your DD has found a passion.  Also, if your DD isn't physically well enough to attend high school what makes you think she'd be able to move away to attend college?  Why insist on college immediately after high school?  Why not a gap year?  Let her get a job for a while and see how that works out.  See if she stays healthy enough to keep a job.  How about taking a class or two locally?  It'd be far cheaper, would give you both a better idea of how college might be for her and would make the transition to living on a campus easier.  Having some work/volunteer experience might give her a better idea of what she'd like to do in her life.

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