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[quote=Anonymous]PP here. I did not move for a boyfriend. I moved AFTER we got married. The point is--I was resentful that our marriage was about where HE wanted to live because of HIS parents. His new job was NOT an advancement...it was a lateral move purely to be in the same state as his parents a few years later. Also, I make 90% of what he makes. We are almost an evenly matched couple financially so his career growth is not more important than mine. Financial power is important--that is why I suggested the OP go back to the workforce or plan to. I don't think a 10% raise is a guarantee of career growth, and plus OP said he is in government contracting...all of those opportunities are in DC. I'd argue there is more growth for him right where he is. [/quote]
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