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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Once again, the use of the word value. And in regards to your daughter!
Your child's value is in her spirit, her mind, her creative drive. Being pretty is great, but it will only get you do far. Attaching a value statement to any of the following things make anyone suspect, in my mind- money, where you went to university, looks, possessions, or how many sexual partners you've had. All that matters are compassion, kindness, creative works, altruism, and real love. Yes, attraction is very important, but if your main attraction to your partner is looks, age, and wealth, when you hit a rough patch in life, or as you both age and health issues come up, or any number of things..... will there be a true bond holding you together? 
Your daughter needs to know these things, too. Your lady sounds lovely but you degrade her by giving her a "tier". Her money and looks are just external benefits, be happy for them, but she's no better or worse than anyone else... she's just the perfect gal for you. No need to be a douche about it. :)[/quote]

only reason i assigned a tier to her was in response to the PP who said i wouldn't be able to find a first tier woman to love me.

i know when i say 'value' people think i just mean tangibles and resume.  but really i mean the entire package.

you wouldn't want your bright, kind, creative daughter to get with a dullard who was mean to everyone irrespective of their mutual beauty or careers.  and neither would i.

like valued people, in all aspects of their being, tend to find each other.  i just want my daughter to make sure she can develop into the best total package she can so she can find the same.

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