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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's unfortunate that this thread hasn't included much discussion about the whys of an imbalance in desire.  There seems to be an assumption that it's always about being tired or some sort of a hormonal imbalance, when in reality, there could be all sorts of other issues that are contributing to the problem. [/quote]

Barring low testosterone or something medical, a man's loss of attraction is frequently fairly superficial and straight forward - sex is routine, wife isn't enthusiastic, wife doesn't try to keep up her appearance.

Women's lack of attraction can also be medical or due to appearances; but I think it can also be more subtle - as in when they aren't attractive to a man who has become safe, stable, reliable, and weak. They want those things because then the guy is more likely to stick around and provide; but they also don't want those things because he isn't exciting and isn't arousing. [/quote]

Well now there is a very sexist perspective! Men are superficial and shallow. Women are deep and subtle.

How about the reasons can be complex and multi-faceted for both sides. [/quote]

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