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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, are you the same poster that said you were married before this DH and your new boyfriend came over while you were still living with your ex?

I think you are a fool to throw this marriage away just because it has lost its excitement for you. He is a SAHD and obviously closely bonded with your kids. you would rather have them in daycare all day rather than with their father so that you can go hook up with other men.

Chances are the excitement will wear off with the new guy too. Have you cheated on your husband during your marriage? You don't sound like someone who values marriage or integrity very much. It sounds like you met this new guy and decided he was more exciting (at the moment - being a single, childless carefree guy) so at that point you decided you want to ditch your husband for Romeo over there.

I would not be intimate with another man while you are still living at home with your husband who is not on board with the separation. It takes a pretty cruel woman to leave your husband at home with the kids day and night while you are out hooking up and dating other people.[/quote]

I think you have me confused.. This is the first time I post anything here. .. After 7 years of trying to motivate the guy to be ambitious and become a family leader,, I think 7 years of trying is enough. He is a good father , yes I will give him that. And I am not in any rush to compromise with nobody else... so are you saying that it is fair for him.. for me to still be with him against my own will? I would hate it for a man to be with me,, because he feels obligated too.. if he has tried his hardest and nothing changes.. anyone gives up... I would rather he leave me.. if he no longer desires me as a women.. or loves me.. [/quote]

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