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Reply to "I want my husband to reimburse me for half the income I lost during maternity leave"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous To the people who this is just about bean counting or money, I'd like to see you address the inequality issue. That is the question here. You are addressing this only on the most shallow level and not looking at the real issue. [/quote] How is what she is asking for equality? She just wants to have her cake and eat it too. [b]She did not work for 4 months[/b] and now wants payment not from her employer, but from her husband. She just sees her husband's money and wants it. Like when they get divorced there will be "her " and "his" money earned while living together/married. There is no larger issue with her and you. Most people can't take 4 months off from work, it's like two to six weeks. Sound like she has it good. [/quote] Uh, are you serious? You clearly do not have kids. If her maternity leave was anything like mine she worked twice as hard on half as much sleep. It sounds to me like the husband wanted her to take time off to care for their child so he could keep his career going. All she's asking for is that it not set her back financially more than him since her staying home was a mutual decision that served both of them. Also - she's willing to shoulder half her lost wages - she just wants him to chip in the same amount she's willing to chip in.[/quote]
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