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[quote=Anonymous]I was raised Orthodox and consider my Jewish heritage and culture important, though I am not observant. DH is not Jewish, but is circumcised (as are a a good portion of non-Jewish men of our generation). I don't know yet if we are having a boy, but I feel very ambivalent about circumcision. DH is fine with it, since he is circumcised as are most of his non-Jewish friends, even though the ceremony seems strange - but he is not at all opposed. I know I will do it, because I don't feel strongly enough about it to make my family unhappy - my parents would be devastated if we did not circumcise a baby boy according to religious ritual. But I do agree with other posters who point out that at some point in the future we will all look back at this practice as barbaric and strange. Sure, we can justify it with the STD protection benefits, but that is NOT actually why we do it here in America; we do it either for religious reasons, or because it is considered "normal" in American culture. If you take a few steps back and think about it objectively - it is just straight weird and barbaric: we cut off a piece of little boys' penises! It may not be very painful to the infant, nor does it have lasting awful effects like female circumcision/genital mutilation. But it is still just as weird when you take a step back from the way it has been normalized in our culture.[/quote]
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