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[quote=Anonymous]NP. I’m laughing at all the posts saying that OP “didn’t make her intentions clear” that she wanted these busy young families to continue to spend thanksgiving with OP but that they should do the hosting. Of course that’s crystal clear to everyone already. What’s not clear to the OP is that everyone wants to do other things like see the other side of the family or spend time as a family unit and that they’ve only been indulging OP all this time because she goes to all this effort to host. She doesn’t get that they have their own lives and want to spend time doing other things with other people. If you want to see the grandkids then you need to offer to babysit them - either handing them at your place without parents or going to their homes to help with babysitting periodically. Actually be helpful to them. You can’t have a monopoly on their leave time and family time anymore.[/quote]
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