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Reply to "My ex is married and has a baby due any day now. We haven’t been broken up two years yet…"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Truly, I will never understand why someone would want to be with someone who clearly doesn’t feel the same way about them. As soon as I see a lack of interest-I am out. Why do so many people do this? They try to hold on to a relationship where the other person simply does not care. I really don’t get it. It’s simple, he wasn’t that into you. That’s why you were on and off again anyway. Now he has moved on and had a baby with a person he wants. It hurts, but it’s just the simple reality. You will meet someone eventually who is obsessed with you and wants to be with you 100%-then you will see how much you were missing and how much better off you are without that guy.[/quote] Saying he wants this new woman is a stretch, no? I’m not sure how you can make that assumption. Should could just be a means to an end for all we know. [/quote] He wants her more than he wanted Op, since he is willing to have a baby with her and not with OP.[/quote] Again, how can you come to this conclusion? (Genuinely asking). Maybe this woman decided to keep the baby so he stayed?[/quote] Why does it even matter? The point is he wasn’t into OP. So [b]why does it matter if he’s into this next one or not?[/b] It still doesn’t change the fact that it doesn’t make sense that people chase after others who have shown they simply don’t care that much. I don’t know if it’s a self esteem thing or the belief some have “that they will never find anyone better” which of course is simply not true. I am a strong believer that there is someone for everybody and this person wasn’t OP’s somebody and OP wasn’t her ex’s somebody. Who even cares what he is doing with his life now? He didn’t want OP-that’s it. [/quote] Because DCUM wants him to be a Bad Guy who forced her to have an abortion. OP has no personal responsibility in this matter. [/quote]
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