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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I told him I was leaving or getting a lover if he didn't get his act together.[/quote]

DP, but same story. Her life is amazing, SAHM because she wants to be, lots of friends and hobby time, etc. We had a terrible year with no sex and I finally told her that fun time is over and we'll be moving to a 50/50 split on everything, and if she can't manage that then she gets kicked out of the house. Things are going great now, she just had to make contact with reality.

Get mad as hell and give your partner an ultimatum that you WILL carry out. Don't get suckered into forever counseling. [/quote]

So is coercion and threats like a kink for you? [/quote]

All depends whose ox is being gored.  The previous state of affairs was that I was being implicitly coerced and threatened into a sexless life. All I did was grab the gun and point it in the opposite direction. YMMV.[/quote]

Wait, you threatened to kick your wife out, remarry, have another family, and leave her and her children with nothing, right?

And she threatened you with a “sexless life?”  [/quote]

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